​So, again, I’m not trying to make anyone paranoid by writing this. Still, out of all the conversations I’ve had with parents, I would have to say that mouth-breathing ranks somewhere below “abducted by aliens” on the list of parental concerns, so I wanted to call some attention to it.

Facial deformities and TMJ disorder aren’t really my area of expertise, but when it comes to sleep, I know my stuff, so allow me to expand a little on why snoring can ruin an otherwise wonderful, rejuvenating night.

As you probably already know, we all sleep in cycles. We transition from a very light sleep into deeper sleep, then deeper still, and finally into the dreaming stage, commonly known as REM sleep. During that first stage of light sleep, as well as in the REM stage, we’re very easily woken up. The cat jumped on the bed, your partner rolling over, or involuntary muscle twitches can startle us out of our glorious snoozing session, and then we’re back to the starting line, trying to get back to sleep.

In adults, these cycles last around 90 - 110 minutes, but in babies, they’re closer to 45, so the opportunity for them to wake up occurs more frequently throughout the night. (Which, I’m sure, isn’t news to anyone reading this. Every parent knows all too well how often babies tend to wake up during the night. Most delivery drivers probably know it as well, given how many mothers they’ve seen with the death- stare in their eyes after ringing the doorbell at the wrong time.)

And what causes baby to wake up in those light stages of sleep? More than anything else, noise. Barking dogs, garbage trucks, washing machines getting thrown off balance during the spin cycle, and quite often, the sound of their own snoring.

That’s not the only reason for waking up, mind you. If their airway is obstructed to the point where they temporarily stop breathing, what’s known as obstructive apnea, the body tends to startle itself out of sleep. (And I’m sure we’re all happy for that little fail-safe, even if it does lead to nighttime wake-ups.)

Now, I could rehash all the points I’ve made in my blog posts about the benefits of solid, consolidated sleep, as well as the detriments of sleep deprivation, but I’ll leave it to the National Institutes of Health and their extensive study on the subject if you need a refresher. Suffice it to say, your baby needs a lot of sleep, and it’s bad for them in a whole lot of ways if they don’t get it. Therefore, if your baby (regardless of age) is snoring, you should take immediate action.

That brings us to the question that every person who has ever slept next to a snorer has asked themselves. “How on earth do I stop this person from snoring?”

The first thing you should do is grab your phone and record your little one breathing while they sleep.

The second step is to take that recording to your pediatrician and play it for them. Just going to the doctor and telling them your baby’s snoring might not spark a lot of concern on their part, but being able to demonstrate the severity of the issue can light a little fire under their butts and prompt them to refer you to a respiratory specialist.
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Removal of the tonsils and/or adenoids is often the next logical step if their airways are significantly blocked. Don’t panic, though. The process isn’t nearly as intense as it might sound and is performed over half a million times a year in the US alone.

If your little one’s snoring isn’t severe enough to warrant surgery, however, you might benefit from some nasal strips, which you’ve probably seen advertised. They’re just thin strips of metal in a cotton sheath with adhesive on the back that sticks to the outside of the nose, gently pulling open the nasal passageways. It’s not the most elegant solution, but it does solve the problem temporarily.

​Just a final note to add here. If your baby is sick or congested, don’t jump to the conclusion that their snoring is permanent. A slight nasal congestion due to illness can cause baby to snore, but it should clear up when they recover. Try using a nasal bulb to suck the ickiness out of their nose and then a saline solution to clear up the passageways.

I know that, as mothers, we’ve got plenty to worry about without throwing unnecessary concerns into the mix. Still, if your baby’s snoring, it can have some serious consequences, and you should take it seriously. It’s preventable, and a better night’s sleep is waiting on the other side of the solution for your baby as well as the rest of your family.

- Erin Neri, B.A. Psychology, Certified Pediatric Sleep Consultant, Infant Mental Health, Integrated Feeding Specialist

​Has your baby suddenly started waking during the night again, fighting naps, or resisting bedtime as they near their first birthday? If so, you might be dealing with the 12-month sleep regression—a frustrating (but totally normal) phase that can turn sleep upside down just when you thought you’d found your rhythm.
As a certified pediatric sleep consultant, I’ve helped countless families navigate the ups and downs of regressions—including the tricky one-year mark. And here’s what I want you to know: this regression doesn’t have to derail your progress.
Let’s break down what’s behind the 12-month sleep regression, how long it typically lasts, and most importantly—what you can do to get sleep back on track.

​The 12-month sleep regression is a period of disrupted sleep that often happens right around your child’s first birthday. You might notice:

• Increased night wakings
  
• Sudden refusal of naps (especially the second nap)
  
• Fussiness or tantrums at bedtime
  
• Shorter naps or skipped naps altogether
  
• More early morning wake-ups
  
• Separation anxiety, clinginess, or resistance at sleep times
  

Sound familiar? You’re not alone. This regression is often mistaken for a permanent change in sleep needs—but that’s not usually the case.

​A lot is going on developmentally around 12 months, and these big leaps can absolutely impact sleep:

• Walking and gross motor development: Your little one may be taking first steps, cruising along furniture, or practicing standing—and their brain is busy processing these new skills, even at night.
  
• Language development: Around the one-year mark, babies experience a language explosion. All that cognitive growth can make it harder for the brain to wind down.
  
• Nap transition confusion: Some babies look like they’re ready to drop to one nap, but most aren’t truly ready until 14–18 months. Attempting to drop a nap too early often leads to overtiredness and disrupted night sleep.
  
• Separation anxiety: Around this age, separation anxiety often peaks. Your baby may resist sleep simply because they don’t want to be away from you.
  

​Most sleep regressions—including the 12-month sleep regression—last anywhere from 2 to 6 weeks. But how you respond during this phase can make a big difference.
If you suddenly start rocking or feeding your baby to sleep every time they wake, or if you rush to drop a nap that they’re not actually ready to lose, you may find that the short-term sleep disruption becomes a longer-term habit.
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​Here are my top sleep consultant tips for getting through this regression:

1. Stick with two naps a day—for now
   Even if your baby resists the second nap, most aren’t developmentally ready for a one-nap schedule until 14 to 18 months. Don’t rush the transition.
   
2. Keep your bedtime routine consistent
   A calm, predictable routine helps your child wind down and signals that it’s time for sleep, even when the day’s been off.
   
3. Allow plenty of time for movement
   Let your baby burn energy and practice new skills (like walking or climbing) during the day so they’re not tempted to do it at 2 a.m.
   
4. Offer comfort without creating new sleep associations
   You can respond to your baby during this phase with comfort and reassurance—without introducing new sleep habits you don’t want to maintain.
   
5. Be patient and supportive
   This is a big time of growth, and a little extra patience (with yourself and your baby) goes a long way. That said—you don’t have to “wait it out” alone.
   

Sometimes what looks like a sleep regression is actually a sign of a bigger sleep challenge. If your baby has never slept well, or if you were already struggling with frequent wakings, short naps, or bedtime battles before this phase began, it might be more than just a regression.

If you’re unsure whether this is a temporary setback or a deeper issue with sleep habits, I’d love to help. I offer a 30-minute Ask Me Anything call where we can talk through your child’s sleep, see if I can give you some actionable steps to take, and see whether they’d benefit from more personalized support.
👉 Book Ask Me Anything Call Here

My Sleep Regression Solution Guide is your go-to toolkit for navigating the most common sleep setbacks—without creating new habits you’ll have to undo later.
Inside, you’ll find:

• Clear explanations of what’s happening at 4, 8–10, 12, 18, and 24 months
  
• Age-appropriate, step-by-step strategies to help your baby or toddler sleep better
  
• Scripts, bedtime routines, and nap schedules
  
• Gentle techniques to handle separation anxiety, bedtime battles, and nighttime wake-ups
  
• Guidance on sleep props, fear-based stalling, crib-to-bed transitions, and more
  
• Tips to adjust sleep routines with confidence—and avoid burnout
  

👉 Download the Sleep Regression Solution Guide and feel confident no matter which regression shows up next.

​Sleep regressions are tough—but they’re temporary. With the right support, your little one can get back to restful, independent sleep—and so can you.
You don’t have to guess your way through this. I’m here to help you every step of the way. 💛
— Erin, B.A. Psychology, Certified Pediatric Sleep Consultant, Infant Mental Health, Integrated Feeding Specialist 

​If your newborn was sleeping great for long stretches and then--bam—suddenly starts waking up constantly, taking short naps, and fussing at bedtime, you may be dealing with the dreaded 4-month sleep regression.
As a certified pediatric sleep consultant, I can tell you: this is one of the most common and confusing sleep challenges parents face. It feels like it comes out of nowhere—and it’s completely exhausting.
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Let’s unpack what the 4-month sleep regression is, why it happens, how long it lasts, and what you can do (right now) to survive it—and come out stronger on the other side.

The 4-month sleep regression is a permanent developmental change in how your baby sleeps. Around 3.5 to 4.5 months, your baby’s sleep cycles mature and begin to look more like an adult’s—moving between lighter and deeper stages of sleep.
As a result, your baby now experiences partial arousals between sleep cycles—every 45 minutes during naps and every 2-4 hours overnight. If they don’t know how to fall asleep on their own yet, they’ll wake fully and cry out for the same conditions they had at bedtime (like rocking, feeding, or bouncing).

​You might be noticing:

• More frequent night wakings
  
• Naps suddenly getting shorter (30–45 minutes)
  
• Fussiness or resistance at bedtime
  
• Increased crankiness or clinginess during the day
  
• More feeding overnight (even if they weren’t before)
  

It can feel like everything is unraveling—but here’s the key: this isn’t a temporary phase like other regressions. The 4-month sleep regression marks a permanent change in how your baby sleeps.
Which means… this is the perfect time to teach healthy sleep habits that last.

​If no changes are made, the struggles can continue indefinitely. Some babies start waking every hour and stay stuck in that pattern for weeks or even months.
But the good news? With the right guidance, your baby can learn to connect sleep cycles and fall asleep independently.
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That’s why so many families reach out to me at this stage—because this is one of the most impactful points to shape lifelong healthy sleep.

​Here’s what I recommend to my clients:

1. Start putting baby down awake
   If you’re rocking, nursing, or bouncing your baby to sleep, begin practicing drowsy-but-awake or fully awake at bedtime. This helps your baby learn to self-settle when they wake between cycles.
   
2. Create a consistent bedtime routine
   A calming, predictable wind-down routine tells your baby it’s time for sleep and helps them feel secure—even during this big transition.
   
3. Use age-appropriate wake windows
   At 4 months, babies can typically handle 1.5 to 2 hours of awake time before needing sleep again. Overtiredness leads to more night wakings and short naps.
   
4. Keep the sleep environment dark, quiet, and cool
   A dark room, white noise, and optimal sleep temperature (68–72°F) all support better, deeper sleep.
   
5. Be consistent—especially at bedtime
   The way your baby falls asleep at bedtime sets the tone for the entire night. Start there, and you’ll see progress ripple into naps and overnight sleep.
   

If you’re in the thick of the 4-month sleep regression and want expert support to make sure you’re on the right track, book an Ask Me Anything Call with me.
This 1:1 call is perfect if:

• You’ve read the Sleep Regression Solution Guide and want help applying it to your child
  
• You’re unsure if this is just a regression or something more
  
• You need a short-term strategy tailored to your specific situation
  

This isn’t a full sleep training plan, but you’ll walk away with clarity and confidence on how to move forward.
👉 Book an Ask Me Anything Call here

My Sleep Regression Solution Guide is your go-to toolkit for navigating the most common sleep setbacks—without creating new habits you’ll have to undo later.
Inside, you’ll find:

• Clear explanations of what’s happening at 4, 8–10, 12, 18, and 24 months
  
• Age-appropriate, step-by-step strategies to help your baby or toddler sleep better
  
• Scripts, bedtime routines, and nap schedules
  
• Gentle techniques to handle separation anxiety, bedtime battles, and nighttime wake-ups
  
• Guidance on sleep props, fear-based stalling, crib-to-bed transitions, and more
  
• Tips to adjust sleep routines with confidence—and avoid burnout
  

👉 Download the Sleep Regression Solution Guide and feel confident no matter which regression shows up next.
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You don’t have to white-knuckle your way through this stage. With the right tools and support, your baby can sleep beautifully—and so can you. 💛
You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.
— Erin, B.A. Psychology, Certified Pediatric Sleep Consultant, Infant Mental Health, Integrated Feeding Specialist

Is your little one waking up in the middle of the night? 


No, no, not like that. I mean, like really waking up. Waking up and staying up. For, like… hours.


If you’re the parent of a baby or toddler who’s dealing with segmented sleep, you know exactly what I’m talking about. This isn’t the middle of the night. “Go in and comfort your little sleeper for ten minutes until he gets back to sleep” wake up. This is a full-blown 3:00 a.m. dance party. 


It’s got a few names. Segmented sleep, bifurcated sleep, split nights, and it describes a situation where your little one sleeps for a long stretch, then wakes up happy and energetic in the middle of the night and stays that way for an hour or more.


Slit Nights aren’t a new or unnatural phenomenon. Back before the widespread use of the electric light bulb, people would regularly sleep for a few hours, wake up for another hour or two, then go back to sleep. 


They’d use the time to read, smoke, pray, and have sex (not necessarily all at once), and then after an hour or two, they’d get back into bed and sleep until morning. (Apparently, it was also a typical time for visiting one’s neighbours. Not to hate on the old days, but if my neighbours came over unannounced at three in the morning, oooohhh, things would get biblical.) 


Nowadays, however, the vast majority of us go to sleep at night and, hopefully, close our eyes and sleep straight through until morning.
But let me guess… your kiddo didn’t get the memo?


Split nights are actually a pretty common issue. Baby goes down at 7:30 at night, wakes up at 3:00 in the morning, parties her ass off for an hour and a half, then goes back to sleep, apparently careless about the groggy, miserable day she’s set her parents up for.


So let’s take a quick look at why this happens, and then we’ll learn how to solve the problem.


Why Do Split Nights Happen?

There are two major drivers when it comes to sleep. First, there’s our circadian rhythm, which is our natural tendency to fall asleep when it’s dark and wake up when it’s light. Then there’s our homeostatic sleep drive, commonly known as sleep pressure, which builds up over the time we’re awake. 


So ideally, over the course of the day, sleep pressure builds up, then at bedtime, when the pressure hits the sweet spot, baby puts her head down and goes to sleep. Then, as that sleep pressure begins to subside, circadian rhythm takes over, and baby stays asleep until morning.


In the case of a split night, we could be looking at one of two reasons why they’re waking up.
● Your baby or toddler is not getting to bed early enough, OR…
● She is going to bed too early.


Now before you pitch your phone out the window at that seemingly paradoxical explanation, check this out. 

How to Fix Split Nights?

If your baby or toddler is getting to bed too late, if too much sleep pressure has built up, the brain has this instinctive response that says, “Hey, you’re tired, but you’re not sleeping. I’m guessing that’s because there’s a carnivorous apex predator around, so we’d better get ready to make a break for it,” and then starts upping the cortisol levels. 


The brain means well, but it’s a little behind the times on our need for lion alerts.


So this can make it tough for baby or toddler to get to sleep at bedtime since that cortisol’s got them a little bit jacked. It can also cause a full wake-up at the end of a sleep cycle, which commonly happens around 2 or 3 in the morning. Ugh. 


If this is the case, you’re one of the lucky ones. Treat this like any other nighttime wake-up, reassure baby that it’s still bedtime, comfort her and let her get back to sleep on her own, and consider moving bedtime up a bit over the course of a few nights.


But then there’s the alternate scenario. What if your baby or toddler gets to bed too early? 


In a situation where your baby or toddler’s getting lots of quality daytime sleep and going to bed early, it’s possible that there’s not enough sleep pressure built up to keep him sleeping until his circadian rhythm takes over and helps him sleep through the rest of the night, so up he gets. 


And now that there isn’t as much sleep pressure, and their circadian rhythm doesn’t have the horsepower to get them to sleep on their own, suddenly they’re up and active for an hour (or three!) while that pressure builds back up. 


Now, I’m all about early bedtimes. Too little sleep is a much bigger problem than too much. But suppose your baby or toddler's experiencing this kind of split-night sleep. In that case, it’s worth looking at their schedule and doing a little fine-tuning to ensure that you’re hitting the optimum sleep pressure right at the same time that baby’s going to bed for the night. 


I know plenty of situations can arise where you’ll want to get baby to bed a little early. For example, if she had a day of lousy naps and is clearly tired half an hour before bedtime, it’s the right move to get her to bed ahead of schedule. 


But try to avoid putting your little sleeper to bed early, more than one or two nights in a row. We want to prevent over-tiredness, but we also don’t want them in the crib at night for more time than they’re actually capable of sleeping. 


So if your baby or toddler's had a tough day and didn’t nap well, it’s fine to get her to bed a little early since that sleep pressure is likely already built up, but try to get her back onto the regular schedule starting the next morning, including her wake-up time. 


I know that this can all start to sound like an immaculately choreographed ballet. In some ways, it can be pretty complicated. Still, the more you understand the nuances and know where to make those minor adjustments, the better your baby or toddler will sleep. The less they’ll run into these regressions, setbacks, and interruptions.


One final thing to consider if you’re getting ready to tackle this situation. This is not likely to be an overnight fix. Once your little one has gotten into this habit, getting them out of it can take some time. 


Like any attachment or dependency, overcoming it is an incremental process, and it’s likely to meet with some pushback, so if and when things get tough, remember your goal. 


You’re giving your little one the skills they need to sleep soundly through the night, and that contributes to their well-being in so many different ways. So stay consistent, be patient, and before too long, you and your little sleeper will both be enjoying full nights of deep, restful sleep. 

If you are having trouble with your child's schedule and are unsure what it should look like get our Free Sleep Needs Chart. It will help you determine wake windows, nap lengths, number of naps, bedtimes, along with wait times for night time interventions.